Adventures Underground
7 March 2013 @ 9:51 PM
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2 months ago
3 March 2013 @ 12:20 PM

My childhood was the most stable one I’m aware of.  My parents were married for over 30 years.  We lived in the same house since I was two.  When my Mom passed away in 2006, stability went out the door.  We lost my childhood home in 2007 and, since then, I’ve moved around every once in a while.  Yesterday, I moved to my sixth address in as many years.

I hate this.

Is it too much to ask for to have stability?  I know that sounds like an awful thing to some people, but I just want to go to work at the same place five days a week, come home at the same time to the same home every night, be surrounded by the same friends, and have a boring routine for my boring life.  That sounds like heaven to me.  No more of this “I don’t know where I’m going to be in six months” crap.

All I think about is how different my life would be if my Mom were still alive.  Maybe I’d be married by now, in a house of my own, and maybe I’d even have a baby.  Who knows?  Instead I’m bouncing from home to home, car to car, job to job, and watching all my friends enjoy the life I wish were my own.

I’m probably just being hypersensitive right now because the change is so brand-new.  Maybe in a couple weeks, I won’t care and I’ll be content to stay here until things are better financially and I can get a place of my own.  All I know is I’m not giving up my dream because if you lose your hope, you lose everything.  So I’m hanging onto that with every fiber of my being because I know things will get better with time, like they always have before.

2 months ago
30 November 2012 @ 12:48 AM
"Have you ever just looked at someone and thought, “I really love you”. They’re just talking or humming or watching a movie or reading a book or laughing or something, and there’s something about them in that moment—their body is alive, there’s a light in their eyes, something—that makes you think, “I just really love you.” It’s a weird sensation to think this, but it’s pretty awesome that we can feel this way about another being."
5 months ago via avintagelesbian (originally text-pistol)
29 November 2012 @ 9:16 AM
"Always listen to what people say when they’re mad. That’s when the truth comes out."
5 months ago
28 November 2012 @ 10:26 PM
"The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do."
5 months ago
25 November 2012 @ 8:11 PM

beatsandbrushes:

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for things that matter.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose Life.
28. Forgive but don’t forget.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.
42. The best is yet to come…
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

(Source: reginabrett.com)

5 months ago via get-motivation (originally kangalex)
21 November 2012 @ 8:21 PM
Something to think about…

Something to think about…

5 months ago
10 November 2012 @ 11:16 AM

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.


The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced two beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed..

“Now,” said the professor as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff. If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.

Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.

Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled and said, “I’m glad you asked. The beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of beers with a friend.”
6 months ago
9 November 2012 @ 7:47 PM
Word.

Word.

6 months ago
6 November 2012 @ 11:56 PM
LOVE IT!!

LOVE IT!!

6 months ago
3 November 2012 @ 10:54 AM

(Source: modern-blog)

6 months ago via hillarycalhoun (originally modern-blog)
31 October 2012 @ 8:15 PM
"You have a right to experiment with your life. You will make mistakes. And they are right too. No, I think there was too rigid a pattern. You came out of an education and are supposed to know your vocation. Your vocation is fixed, and maybe ten years later you find you are not a teacher anymore or you’re not a painter anymore. It may happen. It has happened. I mean Gauguin decided at a certain point he wasn’t a banker anymore; he was a painter. And so he walked away from banking. I think we have a right to change course. But society is the one that keeps demanding that we fit in and not disturb things. They would like you to fit in right away so that things work now."
— Anais Nin (via urbannativegirl)

(Source: beautemillesimee)

6 months ago via mmsanwar (originally beautemillesimee)
28 October 2012 @ 8:28 PM

The mere sight of each other left the Pie Maker and the girl named Chuck feeling exactly like they wanted to feel: safe and warm and loved.

6 months ago via twocentblues (originally dreamlessleep)
27 October 2012 @ 1:57 PM
"‎Don’t say anything, because I see that you understand me, and I am afraid of your understanding. I have such a fear of finding another like myself, and such a desire to find one. I am so utterly lonely, but I also have such a fear that my isolation be broken through, and I no longer be the head and ruler of my universe. I am in great terror of your understanding by which you penetrate into my world; and then I stand revealed and I have to share my kingdom with you."
— Anais Nin (via 1000scientists)
6 months ago via quote-book (originally 1000scientists)
24 October 2012 @ 6:28 PM

Rather than telling anyone who reads this why you should vote for the person I’m voting for, I will tell you to just get out and VOTE.  This election will be a close race so every single vote matters.

My mom always said, “If you don’t vote, you can’t complain.”  November 6th is YOUR opportunity to cast your vote and make your voice heard.  

If you’re still undecided, I encourage you to go to BOTH candidates’ websites and research, research, research.  Decide what issues matter most to you personally and vote for the candidate you feel best represents your point of view.  Don’t make an uneducated decision.  This election is too important.

If you live in Florida, early voting is from October 27-November 3.  Or, if you can’t make it to the polls for whatever the reason, you may request an absentee ballot HERE.

http://www.barackobama.com

http://www.mittromney.com

6 months ago